To Develop The Millionaire Mind, Drop These 3 Habits
There’s a whole lot of people out there wishing upon a star that they can become a millionaire. You cannot get there without having the millionaire mind. This blog deals with 3 extremely common things that people do that prevents them from ever having financial abundance.
Bad Habit #1 – No One Wants to Help Me…
“Life is not fair; get used to it.”
– Bill Gates
This may be the most common thing that I hear from people wanting to have success. It is a rationalization. ANYTIME, and I mean, anytime, you blame your lack of success on ANYONE or ANYTHING outside of yourself, you…will…fail. No one wants to help you? Boo-Hoo. Get over it. YOU are responsible for your success, not only will people NOT help you but there will be people that root AGAINST you! Do you think your friends and family want to see you have monumental success? Of course they do not. If you are to succeed, look in the mirror and you will find the one resource you can count on, IF, you learn to develop the millionaire mind.
Bad Habit #2 – You Don’t Know Where I’ve Been…
Notice Columbus doesn’t say IF you have obstacles and distractions, he gives you the idea that you WILL have them. Anyone who has any level of success has had to go through hell to get there. It is the tough parts of your life that teach you the most. You learn the least when times are plentiful. The problem is, most people have a series or string of bad things happen to them and they decide that their success was just not meant to be. YOU, not your circumstances, are the ONLY thing that can stop you.
“Sometimes we stare so long at a door that is closing that we see too late the one that is open.”
– Alexander Graham Bell
Having a tough time in this economy? Congratulations, welcome to the majority. The majority of people around you are going through tough times to, it is how you react to them that will dictate where you end up. IF you concentrate on telling everyone your story of woe, you will NEVER rise above your circumstances. Stop telling your story of how bad things are, I can bet you that the people around you are sick of hearing about it anyway.
Bad Habit #3 – They Don’t Deserve It…
Have you ever been talking to a friend or family member and you share that you admire someone and they quickly say, “yeah, but” and they choose to point out the faults of the person you are admiring? Happens all the time doesn’t it? Most people are so insecure that someone might be ACTUALLY DESERVING of success that instead of being happy for someone, they choose to explain why that person got to where they are or how they gave up some great morality for their success.
Keep this in mind, someone else’s faults has NOTHING TO DO WITH your success. AND, if you choose to keep separating and pointing out the faults in those who have the lifestyle, money or relationship that you desire, you are telling yourself that you do not want what they have and you will never get it. Developing the Millionaire mind means creating a world inside yourself that welcomes abundance. An internal world that pushes you toward your dreams not ridicules those that already have your dream. Be very careful of this bad habit. If you continue to separate yourself from those in abundance, well, you will simply never get to ANY level of abundance.